
BOOKS
This is by no means a complete list of books for the triad. Some books will be more appropriate for different sides of the triad or for different types of adoption (transracial, domestic, international, etc.).
If you are an adoptive parent, do the work of reading books prior to reading to your child to ensure it will not be a trigger.
BOOKS FOR CHILDREN
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Coco & Olive by Michelle Madrid-Branch
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Dear Wonderful You: Letters To Adopted and Fostered Youth by various adult adoptees and former foster youth (intended for teens)
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Discovering Me: A Journey Book About Adoption by Betsy Trainor
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Every Year On Your Birthday by Rose Lewis
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Families Change: A Book for Children Experiencing Termination of Parental Rights by Julie Nelson
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Frankie and Friends Talk Adoption by Pam Kroskie and Marcie Keithley
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Growing Grace by Erin Mason
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Heart Picked: Elizabeth's Adoption Tale by Sara Crutcher
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I'm Yours: An Adoption Story From a Mother's Heart by Ashley Cameron
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Just Right Family: An Adoption Story by Sylvia Lopez
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Kids Need to Be Safe: A Book for Children in Foster Care by Julie Nelson
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Maybe Days: A Book for Children in Foster Care by Jennifer Wilgocki and Marcia Kahn Wright
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Motherbridge of Love by an anonymous adoptive mother
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Star of The Week: A Story of Love, Adoption, and Brownies with Sprinkles by Darlene Friedman
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Stellaluna by Janell Cannon
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Ten Days and Nine Nights by Yumi Heo
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The Mulberry Bird by Anne Braff Brodsinsky, PhD
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We Adopted You, Benjamin Koo by Linda Walvoord Girard
BOOKS FOR ADULTS
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All You Can Ever Know by Nicole Chung
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Attaching In Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents by Deborah D. Gray
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Before You Adopt by Christa Jordan (workbook for prospective adoptive families)
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Beyond Two Worlds: A Taiwanese-American Adoptee's Memoir & Search for Identity by Marijane Huang
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Far From the Tree by Robin Benway
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In On It: What Adoptive Parents Would Like You To Know About Adoption by Elisabeth O'Toole
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Inconvenient Daughter by Lauren J. Sharkey
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Lion by Saroo Briarly
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Lionheart: The Real Life Guide For Adoptive Families by Jodie Hampshire, Selina Smyth & Tammie Flinos, with Robert Harris
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The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk, M.D.
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The Connected Child: Bring Hope And Healing To Your Adoptive Family by Karen B. Purvis, Ph.D, David R. Cross, and Wendy Lyons Sunshine
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The Connected Parent: Real-Life Strategies for Building Trust and Attachment by Karen B. Purvis, Ph.D & Lisa Qualls
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The Family of Adoption by Joyce Maguire Pavao
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The Girls Who Went Away by Ann Fessler
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The Open-Hearted Way to Open Adoption: Helping Your Child Grow Up Whole by Lori Holden
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The Whole Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson
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Through Adopted Eyes by Elena S Hall
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Through Adopted Hearts by Elena S Hall
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Umbilicus by Paula Gruben
BOOK RESOURCES
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@adoption.books (Instagram)
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Reviews of adoption related books
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@blackbabybooks (Instagram)
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@booksfordiversity (Instagram)
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@mydiversebookshelf (Instagram)
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"Adoptee Reading aims to be the go-to site for books of interest to adopted people. First and foremost, we feature books written by adoptees themselves."
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List of books recommended by adoptees from the podcast Adoptees On
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Hey Tra's All Black Everything Book List by Hannah Matthews
DO YOU HAVE RECOMMENDATIONS?
Email us at vistoadoption@gmail.com with any books you recommend adding to this list. We love to hear your suggestions!